Hey there! I'm Rebecca.
I help single women break free from painful relationship patterns and finally trust themselves in love again.
Let’s quiet the confusion, clear the fear, and rebuild the self-trust that leads to love that actually feels good—without losing yourself in the process.
Let’s be real: You don’t just want love. You want peace, clarity, and a connection that doesn’t drain you. You want to feel confident in who you are—and calm in the choices you make. You want to trust yourself again.
And sure, you’d love to do that without constantly questioning your worth, repeating the same patterns, or spiralling into "Is it me?" mode every time someone pulls away.
But let’s be honest—when you search for answers like: “Why do I keep attracting the wrong people?” or “How do I stop sabotaging relationships?” you’re hit with a wave of fluffy advice, shallow tactics, and overused Instagram quotes that leave you feeling… nothing.
The noise, the overthinking, the pressure to “fix” yourself—it’s exhausting. And maybe, quietly, you’re wondering if things will ever actually change… Or if this is just how love will always feel.
Here’s where I come in—no fixing, no shame, no pretending: Just a grounded reset, rooted in self-trust and real change.
Take a deep breath.
We’re going to quiet the chaos and shift what’s underneath—for good.
My story...
Single and struggling, I once felt invisible despite outward appearances. A string of relationships left me questioning: "Why do I always attract unavailable partners? Why do I give more than I get? Is something wrong with me?" My self-worth in love had plummeted, leaving me disconnected from others and myself, and aching to be seen and understood.
I learned to trust my heart again, and that shift ignited a passion to help other smart, self-aware women break free from unhealthy emotional cycles. Now, as a certified coach, my mission is clear: to help single women stop settling, rebuild self-trust, and attract love from a place of wholeness, not fear. If you're ready to stop over-functioning in love and truly come home to yourself, you're in the right place.
You have found your way here, so one or some of these maybe the reason:
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Tired of repeating the same painful relationship patterns. Done with overgiving, attracting unavailable partners, and feeling like you're losing yourself in relationships.
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Craving a deep, real connection but is afraid of choosing wrong again. Despite being self-aware, you carry emotional baggage and fear making another mistake, leaving you stuck.
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Questioning your own worth in love and wonder if something is "wrong" with me. You might be successful elsewhere, but when it comes to relationships, your confidence has plummeted, and you long to feel secure and worthy of love.
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Wanting to finally break the cycle and feel grounded and clear. You're ready to move from self-doubt and confusion to self-trust and clarity, attracting a partner without betraying yourself.
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Ready to attract love from a place of power, not fear. You desire a relationship that feels safe, healthy, and real, and you understand the work starts with your own transformation.
Let's get back to what really matters.
Some of the Things I Love Most!
Favourite Spot (so far): Australia
Coffee Order: black no sugar or americano with coconut milk.
Best Memory: having my 2 bubbas.
Current Goal: help 5,000 women to be empowered and love themselves.
Favourite Cocktail: like a few mojito
Favourite Food: again there's list but Thai or Italian.
Guilty Pleasure: watching First Dates and MAFS
Favourite Past Times: being in nature with mabel (our dog).
What Our Clients Are Saying...
"After leaving a toxic relationship, I was left feeling invisible, unheard, and unsure how to move forward. The 1:1 coaching sessions with Rebecca gave me a safe space to be completely honest and helped me uncover the patterns that kept me stuck. With new discovered clarity and confidence, I was able to open my heart again—and now, I’m in an authentic, healthy relationship that truly feels right. This support was the turning point I desperately needed."
-Nadine
"I struggled with feeling disconnected—from myself and from others—and didn’t know how to break the cycle. Through the coaching with Rebecca , I found a deep sense of empowerment and learned how to express my feelings without fear. My heart opened in ways I hadn’t imagined possible, and my relationship with my partner transformed into something loving and real. This journey gave me back my voice and my confidence."
-Morgan, NY
"I was stuck in a cycle of self-doubt and procrastination, wanting confidence and clarity but not knowing where to start. Rebecca has helped me identify the fears holding me back and gave me practical tools to move forward. I now know who I am and what I want in a relationship! And I am pursuing passions in my life—something I hadn’t done in years. This experience gave me direction and a renewed belief in myself."
-Melissa
Want to understand your love triggers so you can break old patterns and finally feel secure in relationships?
This Trigger Mapping Starter Guide is the ultimate first step to help you uncover why certain moments in dating or love hit you hard—and how to respond from a place of clarity and confidence instead.
Inside, you’ll identify emotional patterns, explore past experiences that shaped them, and gain powerful insight into how you show up in love.
It’s time to stop second-guessing yourself and start creating the steady, conscious love you truly deserve.
